perhaps people help others isn't cause of their
- what's that word. it'll come to me. i once took two weeks remembering the word fickle.
it just got lost in the mind. -
or generosity but more so that they can avoid
harping on themselves.
and ignoring their own problems.
denial of sorts.
like a denial of service. that affected facebook.
deny them self-service.
maybe.
[edit. i was reminded of the word. altruistic.]
