Saturday, July 12, 2008

Society

Society. Who determines what is acceptable and what is not?

Dictionary says it's 'a body of individuals living as members of a community; community' but also defines it as 'those with whom one has companionship' .

But, is it really?

When the first couple kissed or had a public display of affection, who frowned upon it? Would they told by family members that is was unacceptable, or by friends? Or did other couples around observe and follow suit, thus leading to a more open-minded society now?

Who lays down the rules, for relationships, to determine the openness of both parties and what can or can not be done, with or without the partner? When does the line of accountability be crossed and when should one observe but not comment?

Is there a guidebook or a bible to refer to? Some say wouldn't that be laws. But these govern society, and are mostly for law and order, are they not? What about rules that aren't covered by the law?

What then does society say about those whom it rejects, by leaving alone and not ignoring? Does society oppose one who befriends those who have no true friends, even at the cost of public humiliation?

What value does society bestow friendship? Can its value ever be truly measured? Surely, it being so important in daily routines, it should teach how to make a true friend, and not teach how to differentiate true friends and casual friends, and realise you have none of the former?

Society is but the backbone of life. But, life is the backbone of society. So, how?